Friday, July 5, 2013

Legally Gagging the Victim. Read about it @ I'm Going Home: I Reported Harassment and Now HR Wants to Meet With Me. What Do I Do?

http://employeeatty.blogspot.com/2011/03/i-reported-harassment-and-now-hr-wants.html#comment-form_1036699553547631955Legally gagging the victim.  Read about it @ I Reported Harassment and Now HR Wants to Meet With Me. What Do I Do?

Why this blog

I created this blog to give a voice to the victims of abuse, rape, harassment, and sexual harassment, hoping that as their Silent Shout is given a voice healing can happen.

You might not have ever been hit by your partner/spouse, but have you been shouted into unconsciousness?  Into an unconsciousness of who you are and what you're about, and what your purpose in life is?

Maybe the person doesn't shout and insult you.  He/she is generally angry and curses and screams "all the time,"  This is also painful and it disrespects you. Sometimes, from behavior like this, 'victimizers' flip and escalate into other verbal and/or physical violence.  Have you tried to stop it?  Have you called the police?  Did you know that there is anger management training? Have you tried it?  How did it work?

Maybe your partner thinks of him/herself only.  Everything is about him/her.  Sex is painful because of the selfishness and carelessness involved.  Maybe your children, sex, or anything else is being used to control you.  How do you deal with it?  How did you get out of a relationship like this?

Maybe you are a target of victimization at work, where a co-worker or a supervisor bullies you or sexually harasses you?  How are you coping?  What have you done about it?

Have you  been raped, that ultimate form of control and of death by a perpetrator.  Speak to us, talk about it here. 

You don't have to use your real name until you can speak about it openly, fearlessly.